I will start this conversation off with a warning for sensitive eyes towards accountability. With so many people being attached to some form of social media platforms, one thing stands out immensely. The clear unwavering insults at the male community by too many women. I’m fully aware that history has had its fair share of evil/bad/jerks of men that have forcefully shaped the globe. The part that seems adamantly left off the accountable list is the many women that have or are participating in the misery of others as architects right by their side. So when someone does something great, it was due to the efforts of the mother; however, when theirs a fail, it’s obviously the father who failed. Ask the many school shooters (terrorists), rapists, abusers… that somehow, their mother’s are exempt from her grooming efforts as they receive public sympathy.

Before those special few get in an uproar, let me state I am a true feminist. I have personally bleed and risked my life for women and their rights to be treated equally. Not to mention that I took part in raising a strong and intelligent young woman. Yet I don’t believe many of the opposite sex can claim the same; as expecting equality of outcomes. I believe many of the incredible hard-working and ingenious women of yesterday would be jumping off cliffs if they witnessed the self-destruction of so many modern-day buffet feminist. That’s right, the buffet feminist, when a person doesn’t want to be fully treated like a male just taking what’s perceived as the good parts. Frankly, I tend to see more women setting other women up for failure or a dangerous situation, to say the least. (Girl, yes, wear that outfit that shows every part of your “privates” to get free access, then blame males for objectifying you.)

I believe it starts from childhood with parents protecting their daughters more than the sons. Then it’s protecting their feelings more than their sons. Then the excuses are allowed to compound since the families start to realize, oh we really haven’t held …accountable for much and now she’s in a relationship business or intimate. So when someone finally says hey this or that is wrong, she replies, that person just attacked me, or jealous/envious of me. Many have the uncanny ability to take a positive situation and flip it negative; especially if it has to do with a male, even a baby. My wife sent me an incredibly cute TikTok of the first day back at school for some toddlers. When this little boy saw his friend outside, he hugged her and then carried her bag inside for her. The many comments were ignorant for no good reason, so many women claimed he was one of the few raised by a good woman and yet people still make excuses for grown men…Only a good woman could’ve produced that….Too bad there’s no adults like that. How about hold your bestie accountable that sleeps with married men; or not hang out with the woman that’s sleeping with dudes in the club because of his watch or his car; and more real men might not confuse the two of you.

The point is, I know there’s not a shortage of bad characters today, especially when we see bad ones get rewarded every day in politics, business, society, and households. Society has shown zero problems shamming males, holding most men accountable (of course, not wealthy white males) and allowing unlimited excuses for the bad characteristics of so many bad acting women. Look at what we reward during these past recent years, many artist have resembled what some would call prostitutes to sell a music album while fully sexualizing themselves. Some have never been in a movie without multiple sex scenes. And please do not say they had no options. We all have at least one option. Or just lying about what’s a healthy body and encouraging others to become obese. Let’s not forget those encouraging little boys to change their gender. The married ones that have/had talk shows while sleeping with her son’s friends. The famous women that sleep with men could be considered their son in age. Cher, Madonna, Jada… So much hypocrisy; yet when it came from a male, they would be shunned in the streets as monsters or predators that they are.

First hand, I’ve witnessed the grooming conversations of grown women telling my 11 year old daughter. You’re so pretty. Do you have a boyfriend yet? You will make such beautiful babies. If you got it, flaunt it. It doesn’t last forever. You would look so much more beautiful with this make-up, and plucking your eyebrows and, and, and. It took everything I had just to protect my very own daughter from her own family. I’ve mentored in many schools, and it’s very consistent the people willing to pimp out their daughters so they weren’t the only ones. Look at what’s been allowed at high school proms. It looks like a fast track to the nearest stripper pole, and the mother’s are so proud of their creations. (How did our baby get pregnant at 15-17?) What the hell did you think would happen allowing her to play house as a teenager! The amount of times I’ve heard women saying, we know …is a good guy and treats you good, but …that one makes more money or might be in the league or a partner, CEO, Mayor, Senator, Governor…

I’ve walked away from relationships where the mother publicly trashed and talked her ex-husband because he didn’t want to stay in a marriage after she was caught cheating multiple times. (What did he do?) The same person was given custody of her two kids, boy and girl, by the shameless U.S. court system. The little girl was able to dress as inappropriately as possible for a young child. And the son was being raised in a “yes“ environment because, a kid shouldn’t be limited and it builds confidence in him knowing he can get what he wants if he puts his mind to it. He’s the man of the house, and I’m not forcing anything he doesn’t want on him. This is the very same person that claimed “all men are selfish dogs,“ all while training one to do the exact same thing. But once he’s of age, the masses will join in forces to say another father failed despite not having an ounce of legal jurisprudence over the child he helped create.

Many fathers are there as the punching bag of accountability if anything goes wrong. He’s supposed to provide, protect, and guide what he loves. There’s minimal “thank you” heard or given for the successful fathers out there because many do it regardless of the acknowledgment. What about your son, brother, cousin, father, uncle, grandfather, and so on? Are they all pieces of crap, or just all the others? On the other hand, it is deemed criminal to try and hold a bad mother figure accountable. There seems to be no shortage of excuses for her behavior. Yet regardless of how lacking this person may be in the healthy development of a child’s life, she will get rewarded by society for Mother’s Day. People demanding rewards for what they chose to create (look what you did to me). I’ve known and know so many incredible women/mothers, and society insults them every day with the excuses afforded to the horrible actors portraying good women/mothers. People holding the kids they created as spiritual hostages; as if that child signed a contract to be born. Kids don’t owe parents a darn thing, but maybe a thank you if they were set up for success.

If chivalry is dead, it’s because too many modern-day people have murdered it with their new take on non-reality. I open doors, walk curbside, assist over obstacles, extend customary greetings, and step in the way of harm to assist women of all walks of life. Yet the garbage talking and aggressiveness has to stop. For example, anyone should know they are abusing the system of the special buffet equality when threatening a person whom you can not beat their ass. The Karens of the world are a clear example of buffet feminism because they know society will not allow them to get what they deserve. We all have our thoughts, but if you’re not willing to be honest with communication, keep your thoughts buried. I have witnessed too often women working to destroy other women while blaming men. There’s been too many women assisting other women to end positive relationships or a good home because they didn’t have the same and simply wanted company. Men have not been the destruction of women it’s been the person that shares the same chromosomes. Even Peter Pan eventually needed to grow up and look into the mirror of reality.

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